Re: vacations
We work too hard not to take them and we can afford them. We will not give these up.
We usually go to the caribbean (or cancun) in the Feb time frame, then we usually rent a nice house on a lake for all the kids to come on vacation - that is not cheap either but worth it.
In our income bracket and area (Boston) it is not uncommon for people to own cottages and my husband used to own one with his ex (she bought us out). So it's mch cheaper to rent than to buy one. Also we can go to a different lake each time.
I grew up camping though (blue collar family). Hub and I have taken the kids camping many times, not to save money, but because they really love it.
We work too hard not to take them and we can afford them. We will not give these up.
We usually go to the caribbean (or cancun) in the Feb time frame, then we usually rent a nice house on a lake for all the kids to come on vacation - that is not cheap either but worth it.
In our income bracket and area (Boston) it is not uncommon for people to own cottages and my husband used to own one with his ex (she bought us out). So it's mch cheaper to rent than to buy one. Also we can go to a different lake each time.
I grew up camping though (blue collar family). Hub and I have taken the kids camping many times, not to save money, but because they really love it.