Oh Nemo2, I am so sorry to read about this.
I have been noticing the rush to the exit too, right now. It's so sad. My ex-husband's body was found on June 9th. He died in April, under the most horrific circumstances imaginable. No, worse than that! Hideous, nightmarish. I just can't even talk about it, and haven't mentioned it here up to now for that reason.
Anyway I feel for you and what you are going through. I guess it's always possible that the chemo or radiation therapy might help but I agree it looks awfully grim.
Frank and I have been pointing out to one another about what rock stars and other celebrities from our youth are still living. Some are still active and going on tours, although many have died. Anyway, focusing on those who are still living and active makes us appreciate them even more.