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The day isn't done. One of my pet peeves is declaring a winner before the contest is over.
And one of my peeves is people who cling to the faintest of hopes when the outcome is clear.
The day isn't done. One of my pet peeves is declaring a winner before the contest is over.
I'm peeved at myself for getting involved in arguments on the internet.
Absolutely the very best post ever!Best post of the day.
I agree. I keep getting mail from one cruise line, sometimes with a "check" for $1000. But you cannot find a price on their web site or in their brochure.+1 Jerry1. I am very wary about doing business with anyone who cannot give me a price, or at least a price range, upfront.
I guess it is one of those, "If you have to ask the price you cannot afford it".
Well my PP related to CCRC’s is how they don’t give you any sense of their cost structure. Just come in for a tour. If that’s not high pressure sales, I don’t know what is. Problem is, I thought they all had waiting lists. Why the need for the high pressure sales technique?
I just thought of another peeve. I'm on a roll here! Another thing that bugs me is websites that are more concerned with "creating an aesthetic" than actually being easy to use. Thanks to another thread in these forums, I was just looking at the websites of several CCRC companies. On visiting the site of each provider, one of my first questions was where their locations are. On one site, I couldn't find a tab that said "Locations". After a few minutes, I figured out that it was under the tab named "Collection". .....Trouble is, for the average user, it makes the site harder to use.
This sort of thing is typical of a lot of corporate sites. They are so keen to stand out from the competition, that they try to brand themselves with a website that has a "cool and swishy" aesthetic.
Perhaps avoid looking at subjects that drives you to "tell it like it is." I have found myself doing this as well, even though I know I am not ever going to change anyone's thinking.
I just thought of another peeve. I'm on a roll here! Another thing that bugs me is websites that are more concerned with "creating an aesthetic" than actually being easy to use.
While I think Eddie's conclusion is valid: Internet arguments drain you - I have to admit that MY mind has been changed by an internet squabble.
Lately I have caught myself writing long replies to a variety of topics. I read it back, doing my best to edit it down. Then I read again, removing some sections, rewording others. Read through again... And again. In the end, I just cancel out of the message and move on to something else without posting. What a waste of time.
I suspect that if I sat down face-to-face over a coffee or beer with those I have disagreed with, the vast majority of times we would find the differences are minor and could be overcome.
Haven't looked back to see if other air-travel PPs, but my recent flight reminded me how much I have Pet Peeves over:
1) Carry on luggage: The air lines keep shrinking the size of the acceptable carry ons. But that's not my PP. Apparently, they don't even look at what folks are bringing on. I watched a few hundred folks boarding my various flights and many (most?) are bringing carry-ons MUCH bigger than "allowed" and many more than allowed. Most folks come onto the aircraft pulling a "standard" carry-on (probably the older ones which are now a couple of inches too big each way) AND wearing a back pack as well. As a "personal item" that weighs 25 lbs that must be carried on the back seems a bit much. I'm guessing the total weight of carry on most folks now carry approaches 45 or 50 pounds. So every flight is problematic finding space to place carry ons in overheads. If you get there first (DW and I mercifully are allowed - so far - to pre-board because we require "extra time" due to physical conditions.) Others end up putting their carry-ons any where they can find space. Upon exit, they wait until the plane empties so they can go retrieve their carry-on.
2) Folks who use back packs have no sense of personal space. Air craft are crowded places and aisles are narrow. As back-pack wearers trundle down the aisles and look for their row number, they shift side to side and their back packs become lethal weapons that slap unsuspecting seated people in the head. One guy got really steamed at me for holding his back pack away from my head as he pivoted back and forth, trying to help his wife put luggage in the overhead behind me. I told him he had already hit me in the head twice and he wasn't going to do it again unless he wanted to use his fist. He got this "look" - and then apologized.
I really do understand the "unconsciousness" that folks develop when they are on a "mission" (get on the plane, find a seat, get the luggage stowed, etc.) Still, folks ARE responsible for their own actions and should be mindful of other people. The airlines are walking a tight rope. They want customers, so don't push the "limits" too hard. Yet, all that carry-on is problematic and needs to be dealt with. I haven't flown an "under-booked" flight for several years now. I've never seen a flight that had a single overhead space left over either. Folks just bring more and more carry-on now that the airlines charge for checked luggage. Flight crews are the "go betweens" between greedy airlines and "stingy" passengers. It's not getting better. YMMV
Absolutely agree with you 100%. Overuse of photographs!! I'm a birder, and visit a lot of birding websites. Gradually they've all succumbed to the dull monotony of web designers' advice to "draw people in" with a large photo, ideally featuring young people smiling and rejoicing and on the move while doing something vaguely like birdwatching.
Oh, oh, I've been using a backpack for flights for years. I stuff it under the seat and use it to prop up my feet during the flight, so I don't get sore knees from dangling feet. I avoid rolling carryons when I can, and when I can't, I use a small one. I don't swing my backpack side to side to look at seat numbers. If you make contact with my backpack, you rear-ended me in the aisle. When we flew last year (twice), DH and I shared one checked suitcase and used backpacks.
All this is in a bit of jest. I get your peeve.
Proselytizers. Seems past month several thought I needed to be saved. Each time my not interested comment would be ignored so had to switch to the more firm F.... off!
2) Folks who use back packs have no sense of personal space. Air craft are crowded places and aisles are narrow. As back-pack wearers trundle down the aisles and look for their row number, they shift side to side and their back packs become lethal weapons that slap unsuspecting seated people in the head.
Well my PP related to CCRC’s is how they don’t give you any sense of their cost structure. Just come in for a tour. If that’s not high pressure sales, I don’t know what is. Problem is, I thought they all had waiting lists. Why the need for the high pressure sales technique?