I care if my love ones are fat. this was my very best friend J in february, we got together for dinner a few months ago. 2 weeks later I gave the Eulogy at her funeral. she was 55 years old, died from a massive heart attack due to obesity. She met her husband at my wedding, she was a bridesmaid and he was a groomsman. We have been friends for 40 years. shared everything.
She struggled with her weight all her life. she left behind so many loved ones, the school she taught at closed on the day of her funeral because so many of the students wanted to attend.
Yes, I most definitely care. 55 is to young to die from a totally preventable issue