Sparky said:
Anyone that you tell that you are FIRE, you will encourage greed and avarice... they won't say it to your face, but, most likely, they will resent and envy you.
In our opinion, not a good place to be.
Well, in retirement of over 7 years now, we just haven't had that experience. We haven't had people snooping around, checking up on us trying to figure out why we are "at home". We haven't been propositioned with investment opportunities or advice. We haven't been propositioned for loans. There is simply no discussion of finances.
The thing is - most of the people we are around are retired (and thus financially independent) themselves, so at most we are the funky "youngsters". These people are having too much fun in their own lives (and bragging about their latest acquisition or adventure) to pay much notice to us. We spend time with people who have strong mutual interests - birds, butterflies, photography, etc. Maybe people who are actively engaged in such hobbies or volunteering aren't the envious types - again, they are too busy being involved in these fun and educational activities. We contribute a lot of our time and efforts in these areas (donating photographs, video, etc.), forming a positive link with folks - not a negative one.
We avoid disclosing our situation as much as is reasonably possible, and keep a low profile, but when it comes right down to it, we will satisfy a new friend's natural curiosity with as little detail as possible.
We may become a target of a criminal someday (God I hope not!), but it seems to me that it's far more likely to be some random situation (wrong place, wrong time) rather than being deliberately targeted because we are early retirees. Gosh - I suspect any retiree that lives in a motorhome must be considered "loaded" by folks struggling to earn a living.
Audrey