I saw too much tragedy with drugs when I was young to be tempted. The first 11 years of my life I grew up in a neighborhood where the sight of "junkies" was common. Coming across an OD victim with a needle still in his arm when I was in grade school, men and woman staggering down the street, sometimes naked, high on you know what and oblivious to what was around them... you get the picture. A friend and I once tried a cigarette when we were 10, could not get past a couple of puffs without feeling disgusted, so smoking anything never appealed to me. Those impressions at that young age last a lifetime.
In high school and college I had plenty of friends who did drugs. I chose to be "above suspicion" in these matters, and would simply leave from wherever, or separate myself, whenever the drugs came out. When our college radio station gave out its senior mock awards, I received the "how did he work here and never get high?" honor
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One reason DW and I are married is due to a situation in college where I likely saved her from a sexual assault or worse when she was high and drunk (after which she never did drugs or get drunk again). We were dating at the time and she actually broke up with me because at the time she thought I was too "prudish" and stopping her from "having fun" - until several of her friends later pointed to her, when she had sobered up, what I saved her from. Some even told her "if you are serious about breaking up with him, I'd like to date him, any guy who protects a woman like that is worth going out with"
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I have run into too many of those friends in my later adult years where it was clear that drugs impacted their life in a negative manner. When a woman who in high school you thought would be a model is now offering to go to your hotel room and do anything you want, clearly for money to get high... it is a cold slap in the face.
So... no thanks
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