haha
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A 33 yo son. Didn´t expect him. Genius Doc said I wouldn´t be able to have children (I couldn´t care less) a couple months prior to our marriage. When I told my soon- to- be wife she was glad of the news.Both of us came from large families and, maybe because of that weren´t much interested in kids. Neither of us were thrilled when told that she was pregnant, quite the opposite
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She died 13 years ago. Never got along with son. Plenty of times I was in the middle of their arguments or disagreements. Sometines we even blamed him for some of OUR fights. It was very unfair.
In the course of recent years (since her mother died?) I´ve become aware that I´m truly glad I´ve had him, with whom I´ve really got along fine.
My second wife likes him a lot, even though she says that he is a 33 yo spolled brat.
But like some people here, I like dogs better than kids. I never stop to pay attention to kids with the same enthusiasm I do with dogs.
Thanks Vicente, this is a level of frankness that many of us Americans would avoid like the plague. I am so glad that things are now happy between you and son, and also between your wife and son.
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