The FA surprised everyone when she moved the VOW guy to business.
I love it when that happens! Applause for the Flight Attendant!
The FA surprised everyone when she moved the VOW guy to business.
I once witnessed an argument with a very loud man on a plane demanding to be moved to business class (econ sold out) because the very overweight person next to him was taking his space. The FA surprised everyone when she moved the VOW guy to business.
Point of story: maybe you could consider moving out for a spell and see how your daughter feels about that...
Yeah that is a great story...but I'm not sure how the point applies?I once witnessed an argument with a very loud man on a plane demanding to be moved to business class (econ sold out) because the very overweight person next to him was taking his space. The FA surprised everyone when she moved the VOW guy to business.
Point of story: maybe you could consider moving out for a spell and see how your daughter feels about that...
Hopefully, you can get your wife on board.
I would suggest a calm talk with your daughter.
We understand that you are feeling frustrated in having your activities limited. On the other hand, your mother and I are dealing with our own frustrations. We are frightened that our daughter is going to bring home a disease that could kill or permanently disable one of us; and we are sad and hurt that our health does not seem to be of concern to you. You were intending to move out in January, however, under the circumstances, we believe that you should start looking for your own place now. That way you will be able to enjoy your independence, without putting your parents at risk. We will miss you of course, but hope you will call often.
I would actually lower my voice and talk slowly, softly and gently. And - don't feed into a hysterical scene. Bottom line, you do love her, but are not willing to be subject to that type of behavior.
Then I would not sully her independence by offering her money.
Is this the way you wanted this to go down? No, but I had one or two rough launches, and things worked out in the end.
You guys do realize that ratface and his daughter have resolved the issue, right? She is moving to her own place, as he reported in Post #122, four days ago.
It helps to read the whole thread before commenting.
Im not reading an entire thread when the system just emails me with the queation and I hit reply. If the issue was resolved then the original poster should delete the thread.
No,you should read a little before commenting...especially on a long thread.
Just finished a rather unpleasant conversation with my 26 y/o daughter at the dinner table, she got up and tossed her food away and left the table crying. I'm heartbroken. We live in Illinois. Positivity rate is just above 5% and climbing everyday. It's evident things are getting worse. Our mayor was on TV yesterday begging folks to wear masks and wash hands. Information was presented about how most folks are getting infected by family members at home. My wife and I are in relatively good health at 61 and 62. Both my wife and daughter are school teachers to young children and currently work outside the home. I'm retired. We accept the circumstances given the precautions in place at the schools. My daughter attended an outdoor bonfire with peers over the weekend. I voiced concern. This coming weekend she is planning a wine tasting with a small group of friends. Again, I voiced concern citing the sharing of glassware/wine in a group setting. She is also planning on attending an upcoming Halloween party. Again I relayed my concern. She says it's unfair and has to live her life and I argue that we have to hunker down for the next 6 months and protect each other. My heart breaks for her but feel her plans are endangering our family. I cannot get the gravity of the situation across to her. Has anyone else had this conversation with an adult child living at home and have any thoughts on how to best approach it.
That may work on nextdoor, but not on this forum. Long threads don't get deleted. Posts in violation of the community rules sometimes get deleted by the moderator team, but rarely long threads.Im not reading an entire thread when the system just emails me with the queation and I hit reply. If the issue was resolved then the original poster should delete the thread.
Im not reading an entire thread when the system just emails me with the queation and I hit reply. If the issue was resolved then the original poster should delete the thread.
You guys do realize that ratface and his daughter have resolved the issue, right? She is moving to her own place, as he reported in Post #122, four days ago.
It helps to read the whole thread before commenting.
Umm, seriously? I was waiting to find the humorous ending to your post, but it never came. Can you explicate in what way you think it would be a mistake, and how it could possibly be "unfair"?
At 26, I would tell her that it's time to move out of my house if she can't follow some basic, common sense safety rules. In the meantime, I would do what I could to isolate myself and my spouse from contact with her. Let her eat in her bedroom and keep to her own bathroom until this is resolved. This is not about fairness and she's not 14. It's about protecting her parents and herself from a deadly disease.
Yes I realize this can hurt the relationship. I'm here to use the forums as a sounding board for my viewpoint and so encourage dissenting opinions. I always find intelligence here. I also anticipate the Board will be skewed in my favor given the demographics of a retirement community thus peaking my interest in arguments favorable to her point of view?
It must be that weekly newsletter email. It seems to bring in a lot of newer folks who haven’t visited recently.You guys do realize that ratface and his daughter have resolved the issue, right? She is moving to her own place, as he reported in Post #122, four days ago.
It helps to read the whole thread before commenting.
I'm incredulous at the mentality of these people who don't want a virus such as this to spoil their social lives. I'm in NZ and we've done the hard yards with isolation and lock downs. And as a result we're enjoying our freedom. And yes I've got a 16 and 19 year old so I know all about the social isolation, trying to keep kids on task doing schooling at home and all the other 'fun' things with social isolation. Your daughter is behaving like a child and a selfish one at that. As you said you're older and at more risk with this virus. If she wants to behave recklessly with no thought for her parent's safety then I'd say its time for her to have a taste of true independence and move out. As someone else said your house your rules. Do these people who want to live life as normal have any consideration whatsoever for all those health professionals who put their lives on the line every day nursing and caring for Covid patients?