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the-case-against-remarriage: Personal Finance News from Yahoo! Finance
Also take a look at the comments. It seems that an article giving the advantages of avoiding remarriage, also for men at least is a good tutorial on why one should perhaps avoid marriage altogether.
I enjoyed being married, but when I got divorced I had not one moment's doubt that I would be forevermore single. I just don't like playing with a stacked deck. I am more lonesome single, but also more free.
I had dinner a few nights ago with a 40 year old guy in my building who is very attractive to women, but says he would never even consider marriage. (I know he is attractive to women because I sometimes see the lookers leaving his aprtment on Monday mornings.) His current GF, an 8th year neurosurgery resident, is very pretty, and obviously smart and will be very high earning starting next year.
My friend is a union negotiator, who was formerly an Ivy League philosophy instructor. To him, the analysis is simple. He cannot know what it is like to be in a marriage without running the risk of a difficult and expensive exit, so he analyzes it from the outside. Almost 50% of couples divorce, more than that % in our city. So marriage is a failing project for at least 50% of men. (leaving aside that for some women and some rare men it can be an emotional failure but a financial success). Of the 50% who do not get divorced, how many stay for financial reasons or other reasons different from emotional gratification within marriage? How many would love to leave, but don't want to pay the fee? It cannot be none, so marriage is therefore a net loser for men as a group, and possibly for women.
Love is a wonderful thing, but perhaps it is best to keep it on a leash?
Ha
Also take a look at the comments. It seems that an article giving the advantages of avoiding remarriage, also for men at least is a good tutorial on why one should perhaps avoid marriage altogether.
I enjoyed being married, but when I got divorced I had not one moment's doubt that I would be forevermore single. I just don't like playing with a stacked deck. I am more lonesome single, but also more free.
I had dinner a few nights ago with a 40 year old guy in my building who is very attractive to women, but says he would never even consider marriage. (I know he is attractive to women because I sometimes see the lookers leaving his aprtment on Monday mornings.) His current GF, an 8th year neurosurgery resident, is very pretty, and obviously smart and will be very high earning starting next year.
My friend is a union negotiator, who was formerly an Ivy League philosophy instructor. To him, the analysis is simple. He cannot know what it is like to be in a marriage without running the risk of a difficult and expensive exit, so he analyzes it from the outside. Almost 50% of couples divorce, more than that % in our city. So marriage is a failing project for at least 50% of men. (leaving aside that for some women and some rare men it can be an emotional failure but a financial success). Of the 50% who do not get divorced, how many stay for financial reasons or other reasons different from emotional gratification within marriage? How many would love to leave, but don't want to pay the fee? It cannot be none, so marriage is therefore a net loser for men as a group, and possibly for women.
Love is a wonderful thing, but perhaps it is best to keep it on a leash?
Ha