So... 22 years of idealism... school, and then marriage.
Next 30 years, long hours at work, four children, but no moral compromise, and an acceptance of being an average citizen. A full life and satisfying, and when my company closed down, four years of being an entrepreneur... until a life scare. Until then, the "ideal" was to take my place in the world, and maybe to retire when I turned 65. Then... 1989 and cancer was the turning point.
No more the big house and the "good life". Take a chance and retire @53... That was 30 years ago. So, as to ideals? Changed along the way, but definitely never compromised with regard to Money. Learn to live according to the means. If that meant living in a Campground, sobeit... might have been the ultimate happy... best friends in the same boat, no frills and one objective... to live every minute to enjoy life.
I think we could do it again. Fitting in to the best parts of what's possible, but not looking for the next level.
We're now 82, and very realistic about the future. Looks like we'll be fine, but have backup plans for whatever happens. No cruises, no foreign trips, no new cars, trips to "The Theatre" or eating out five times a week. Feel we've been there, done that.
This is the time for the bucket list. futzing with electronics, digging in to the world situation, drifting up to the lake for a day or two... and spending as much time as we want in learning from history, the internet, and psyching out the future.
Life... never better.