teetee
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I have a friend who recently got into a romantic relationship and asked me about a challenge they are facing:
male: 46 single never married, live in the US, close to his 73 yr old mother with A.Fib who needs caring. He can work remotely. His mother owns her own house and does not want to move anywhere. He has a younger sister raising a 5yr old daughter by herself and she lives ~40mins away from his mother.
female: 33 single never married, live in Singapore. Her job does not allow her to move out of Singapore. Her parents own a business and are semi retired. She has purchased a condo in construction which takes 3 more years to be move-in ready.
Challenge: both of them are looking forward to getting married and moving in together but he can't leave his mother without regret, and she can't leave her career without regret.
They need a strategy that can help them overcome this challenge within the next couple of years, before she starts worrying about the potential risks of pregnancy over age of 35.
Thoughts?
male: 46 single never married, live in the US, close to his 73 yr old mother with A.Fib who needs caring. He can work remotely. His mother owns her own house and does not want to move anywhere. He has a younger sister raising a 5yr old daughter by herself and she lives ~40mins away from his mother.
female: 33 single never married, live in Singapore. Her job does not allow her to move out of Singapore. Her parents own a business and are semi retired. She has purchased a condo in construction which takes 3 more years to be move-in ready.
Challenge: both of them are looking forward to getting married and moving in together but he can't leave his mother without regret, and she can't leave her career without regret.
They need a strategy that can help them overcome this challenge within the next couple of years, before she starts worrying about the potential risks of pregnancy over age of 35.
Thoughts?
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