LateToFIRE
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Not sure if this belongs here so if it needs to be moved please feel free. I'm going to purchase a 1 or 2 carrot Dimond ring for my wife of 38 years as of next February. I intend to present it to her on a Caribbean cruise for our anniversary. I'm just floating this here to get some feedback on various ways of going about getting the most for my money.
Thanks for any replies.
I have much experience in this department. DW has a very sharp eye and very specific tastes. For smaller gifts (under $5K) I will surprise her, though will make sure I'm buying from a reputable jeweler that will take it back.
For the stuff over $5K, it's going to be a jointly selected gift, no surprises. Excluding the original engagement ring, there are two seriously eye-popping rings I've given her over the course of our marriage - one she designed and had custom made, the other I surprised her with - guess which one she still wears, and which one has rarely seen the light of day. Yup, you guessed right, the one she designed herself is the one on her hand today.
Don't get me wrong, it was exciting to get the surprise, I went the whole nine yards on presentation, it's not that she wasn't delighted at the big gesture, but the value was in just that, the event, the gesture, instead of the ring itself.