vicente solano
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
- Joined
- May 21, 2009
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She is too forward, casual, and takes things for granted-mainly my house. I wouldn´t mind all that if not for the annoying feeling both my wife and I have that we´´ll be seeing too much of her. In fact we already are.We are consevative and so we like nice, shy and well mannered girlfriends that are a bit nervous when it comes to seeing their prospective in-laws. In our opinion only when their relationship becomes really solid with a wedding in sight should she behave in such a confident familiar way.
And the funny thing is that our son doesn´t seem to be too happy with her, just the two of them. They don´t seem to have much in common. They have entered in some sort of routine. So maybe he brings her along to alleviate the situation.
And he doesn´t like her future mother-in-law, which is gonna be something terrible for him, given that his girlfriend loves to spend a lot of time with her rather bossy mother and clannish family, which by the way I don´t like either-too gossipy and with terrible manners and views.
Any polite way of discouraging her/them to come too frequently before it´s too late?
And the funny thing is that our son doesn´t seem to be too happy with her, just the two of them. They don´t seem to have much in common. They have entered in some sort of routine. So maybe he brings her along to alleviate the situation.
And he doesn´t like her future mother-in-law, which is gonna be something terrible for him, given that his girlfriend loves to spend a lot of time with her rather bossy mother and clannish family, which by the way I don´t like either-too gossipy and with terrible manners and views.
Any polite way of discouraging her/them to come too frequently before it´s too late?