Sister was diagnosed with stage4 colon that spread to liver. Currently undergoing eval for surgery prospect. A terrible situation indeed.
Has 3 kids, with two exes. Last ex bitterly fought and succeeded in taking her to cleaners after two year divorce battle totalling hundreds of thousands in legal fees. She still has 3 properties and a small quarter million IRA.
She is looking into a trust to protect the properties from probate...and sociopath ex #2.
Son (13) with ex#1 who is not a bad guy, is sole beneficiary (life insruance and IRA) as a manner to protect money from other two children's sociopath ex#2.
I realize things could be real bad within months, and I am helping her with her personal financial matters as my folks help her make her appointments.
I am curious and we have an attorney we can and will ask, but I wanted to hear if from the choir. What would you do to protect money intended for heirs from one of the heirs father's who has a history of negative financial actions?
Oldest is at least 5 years out from first tuition bill and her bequest is that he (along with two other daughters) has money for college if/when they need. Unfairly naming one beneficiary is not ideal as it leaves some room for negative implications to the younger two girls but does certainly protect the stash from sociopath ex#2.
Any suggestions and ideas are welcomed.
Has 3 kids, with two exes. Last ex bitterly fought and succeeded in taking her to cleaners after two year divorce battle totalling hundreds of thousands in legal fees. She still has 3 properties and a small quarter million IRA.
She is looking into a trust to protect the properties from probate...and sociopath ex #2.
Son (13) with ex#1 who is not a bad guy, is sole beneficiary (life insruance and IRA) as a manner to protect money from other two children's sociopath ex#2.
I realize things could be real bad within months, and I am helping her with her personal financial matters as my folks help her make her appointments.
I am curious and we have an attorney we can and will ask, but I wanted to hear if from the choir. What would you do to protect money intended for heirs from one of the heirs father's who has a history of negative financial actions?
Oldest is at least 5 years out from first tuition bill and her bequest is that he (along with two other daughters) has money for college if/when they need. Unfairly naming one beneficiary is not ideal as it leaves some room for negative implications to the younger two girls but does certainly protect the stash from sociopath ex#2.
Any suggestions and ideas are welcomed.