How is it that everyone else knows what's best for you? My DB consistently gets offended if I don't follow his advice. Don't get me wrong, I like to share things I enjoy, food, movies, exercise, my dog, what I do with my time, how I spend money, what clothes I wear and how incredibly cheap I can be, just for laughs. But I share these things, I don't tell people to change their life or habits because my things will benefit them. I suggest if I'm asked. Here is one example:
One of my DB lives in Ft. Lauderdale. He sends me pictures of the beach, people on the beach, the ocean, the palm trees, videos of him on the beach. "Wouldn't you love to live on the beach in warm weather year round and all this fun stuff to do?"
Uhhh, NO. The ocean is nice for about 3 days. Then it's boring (to me). I like seasons. The beach is boring. The weather is boring. The humidity is awful. And I could never figure out why one would want a view overlooking a vast empty space. And at night, it's a vast empty dark space, kind of scary. I don't consider it fun to watch old men driving convertible Maserati's down A1A. This scenario is not happiness to me.
One of my DB lives in Ft. Lauderdale. He sends me pictures of the beach, people on the beach, the ocean, the palm trees, videos of him on the beach. "Wouldn't you love to live on the beach in warm weather year round and all this fun stuff to do?"
Uhhh, NO. The ocean is nice for about 3 days. Then it's boring (to me). I like seasons. The beach is boring. The weather is boring. The humidity is awful. And I could never figure out why one would want a view overlooking a vast empty space. And at night, it's a vast empty dark space, kind of scary. I don't consider it fun to watch old men driving convertible Maserati's down A1A. This scenario is not happiness to me.