I believe there’s no such thing as coincidences.
After a few years of being together, Some very coincidental information came to light that proves our relationship was destiny, and I have my 1st "almost" wife to thank.
Basically grew up in NY with my mother and Stepfather, At 16 I moved in with my Father and Stepmother 2 hours away... She was very religious and I was forced to go to church.
Got involved with a girl, ended up living with her a few towns away, Her brother got me some work with a guy named "STAN".
We became engaged, And I moved her to NC, and I came home (Army) to find she had sold hocked trashed about everything I owned and ran back..
Well I went after her, and found myself devastated, wander down the street with nowhere to go... And literally bump into "STAN" walking out of his house, and puts me to work..
One day Im working on "STANs" building, 20 foot up on a ladder when these girls come walking by... The guys start flirting, and one girl wants to leave, But her friends LIE and say they know us...
This girl became my wife...
With that said... We discovered that not only did we go to the same church together... She is related to my stepmother thru marriage...
AND...
The ex and mys apartment was in a 4 unit building... down stairs front, She was babysitting in the upstairs back apartment during the same time.
So in 4 years we spent several times in the same space, not meeting... until HER friends LIE about knowing a guy I know due to the EX's brother...
I'm thinking it would make a good Lifetime Movie.