Sharing a very nice story about my highly educated bada$$ cardiac ICU nurse daughter written and published by Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston …..
*“Make an 'L' with your thumb and index finger on your right hand, and hold it up against your right cheek. You’ve just used my name sign: Lindsey. I am a cardiac ICU nurse, and I was born with significant sensorineural hearing loss.
Starting as a toddler, with the support of many dedicated speech and language therapists, I developed excellent speech and honed ninja-like nonverbal communication skills: lip reading, sign language, and reading facial expressions and body language. This nonverbal communication augments the 'sound' that I receive from my cochlear implant and hearing aid. Until I fill them in, the only clue that my co-workers and patients have that there is something different in how I understand their words and communicate with them is in the stethoscope that I wear. It’s a small hockey puck that 'talks' wirelessly to my cochlear implant.
I used my communication skills recently to help a patient and co-worker. A very weak patient was having difficulty speaking and being understood. She could only subtly mouth her words with no sound. A fellow nurse pulled me in and was surprised how easily I was able to understand what the patient was 'saying.' The patient's needs were quickly understood and met, and she rested once again.
Although my loss of hearing is technically a birth defect, I don’t see it that way. I’ve worked hard to develop and enhance alternative communication skills to compensate for my hearing loss. In the end, it is very simple. I hear and see the world differently—and, in some ways, even better than others.”