easysurfer
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So I think she was just venting and asked for advice.
I have none to give, other than for her to leave it alone and not contact him for a while, and when she sees him at events be cordial but don't get too chummy talking.
It was something I never would have dreamed would happen. On the surface he does not seem like someone who would ever cheat. Of course he is and did. But he's not a person one would think would do that. And she's not a person who ever slept with a married man, she thinks its wrong and feels bad about it. But she did.
One thing I've learned is outward appearance can be quite deceiving. The ones that don't seem like the type are sometimes just the type ... if that makes any sense .