Teacher Terry
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I am guessing Senator has never been married or maybe he is divorced. Anyway his advice is the worst I have ever heard.
I am guessing Senator has never been married or maybe he is divorced. Anyway his advice is the worst I have ever heard.
I am guessing Senator has never been married or maybe he is divorced. Anyway his advice is the worst I have ever heard.
I may need to rethink my aversion to going to stores. Or maybe I'm going to the wrong stores.It's no big deal. I do not even think it's irresponsible. They did something that is completely legal, natural and human.
It is not much different than going to the store together. Hopefully they had a great time.
Kind of surprised by how many dudes are willing to shrug it off as no big deal or a "drunken roll in the sack" and to move on like nothing happened. Can't imagine having so little respect for my spouse to get to that point. What's the point of even being married at that point? Can't imagine these same guys would feel the same way if the shoe was on the other foot.
+1I can’t speak for others, but I see it as a big deal, but it’s too late to avoid the big deal and the question is about what to do now.
+1, was thinking exactly that."The Big Chill"?
A dear relative involved in a huge lawsuit concerning love relationship, a horrific accident, lifelong damages. Attorneys used, text messages, all FB contacts with friends, family...many opinions exchanged even with people they didn't know. Blog references, phone V.M. messages. Very serious.Kristi needs to stay away from him and give up massages.
Matt needs to keep it zipped and stay away from her.
As others have said - it's time for you to butt out of this. Posting, even with small details changed, on a public website is a betrayal of trust. If the wife finds out from another source - this thread could be found on an internet search... and used in legal proceedings. Never post personal stuff that can do damage on the internet. Ever.
Sorry to be harsh - but it's time for you to step back and let them figure it out.
DFDubb said:Can't imagine having so little respect for my spouse to get to that point. What's the point of even being married at that point? Can't imagine these same guys would feel the same way if the shoe was on the other foot.
Kind of surprised by how many dudes are willing to shrug it off as no big deal or a "drunken roll in the sack" and to move on like nothing happened. Can't imagine having so little respect for my spouse to get to that point. What's the point of even being married at that point? Can't imagine these same guys would feel the same way if the shoe was on the other foot.
Unless someone has a mutually agreed on open marriage it’s a big deal. From Senator’s attitude I would guess his relationship is open.
It will be interesting if anything becomes of it, I mean if he leaves his wife or not. I do not see her ever getting married to him and she already has plans to go on a blind date with another guy a friend wanted her to meet.
But you never know, I guess anything could happen.
Poor advice.So I think she was just venting and asked for advice.
I have none to give, other than for her to leave it alone and not contact him for a while, and when she sees him at events be cordial but don't get too chummy talking.
It's no big deal. I do not even think it's irresponsible. They did something that is completely legal, natural and human.
I think it's a big deal if it ends up breaking up the marriage and harming the kids. But he did it, not her.
Or "Mad Men"."The Big Chill"?