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I've lived alone for the last 40 years. Humans that is as I've had dogs over the last 20. No complaints whatsoever.
Not even from the dogs?
I've lived alone for the last 40 years. Humans that is as I've had dogs over the last 20. No complaints whatsoever.
As part of our SimpliSafe alarm system we have a "panic button" mounted on the lower end of our upstairs bedroom wall. Figured in event of a fall, and alone, it might be difficult to get to phone or get down the stairs.
I have a multi-page document for DW covering everything she would need to know if I precdecease her. That includes getting one of those "I've fallen and I can't get up" alarms. I think this is a great idea for anyone living alone.
I suspect Shokwave was kidding otherwise his wife would want to kill him).
Another thing: Some sort of code to open/unlock the front door. An elderly friend of ours recently fell and broke her leg. Dragged herself to her cell phone to call 911. Then dragged herself to the front door to unlock it for paramedics. I'm sure that was a lot of painful dragging, and might not have been possible for a lot of people, or if she fell further away from the door.
That happened with my MIL - the EMTs are prepared for that - they have a device that essentially pops out the entire center of the lock. She had to get a new lock, but they saved her life. This was over 20 years ago. I spoke with them and they said they will always find a way in - wood doors are just kicked in, steel doors, if they can’t get by the lock or a police style lock bar, they use a fireman style pry bar. Then you have to replace the whole door. If a window is accessible, they go in that way.
On Shok's list, not having someone to take me home from procedures is an inconvenience. So far I've had friends who recognized my predicament and helped when asked, but I don't like to have to ask. Any such place is 45-60 minutes away.
Help carrying heavy or awkward loads is also on the list, but it's a little easier to get a neighbor for a few minutes to help with that.
Some of the last few, of course, would be nice.
My local fire/rescue department offers a Knox box for that. They have a key that opens all of them, that they have to sign out for with their SSN on their truck, so it shouldn't just disappear from the truck for someone to use as they please.. There's a sticker on the door that tells them I have one, and they install it by the electric meter in every house, so they can get in, and lock it back up when the leave.Oh yes they will get in. But then off you go, single person, hauled off to the hospital and your home is not secure. There are new locks now that can be opened remotely so that's something to consider just to make all that stuff easier. Particularly if one is already considering a "help I've fallen" thingy.
Yeah, this is the only real downside to living alone, at least for me. What if I need to be transported to the hospital for a procedure? Who's going to take me? My dog can't drive very well. I have some people I could ask, but it feels awkward.
I didn't realize some home health agencies offered that service. That's good.
I always wondered why someone didn't step into that market. An ever-increasing percentage of people live alone, so there must be millions of people who could benefit.
I believe such services exist, but are costly, owing to the drivers needing to be vetted/acceptable to the hospitals. I would ask a neighbor if I had to; but I'd offer to pay.
+1. If it wasn’t for DW, we’d have both gone nuts in 2020 with the Covid restrictions, and we wouldn’t like it in normal times either. We both need some alone time and some separate interests, but not all the time. That said, I’m sure there are some people who are genuinely happier living alone.I would get a Lodger, preferably a friend. I have never lived alone and never intend to.
+1 I am a huge fan of keyless entries! The first thing I did after closing on this house, back in 2015, was to have my handyman put in Shlage keyless entry deadbolts on each of the four exterior doors. I have all four set to the same numeric code.I always put a keyless entry on the front door so you just give someone the code.
I loved having my own place after college, but living alone now (at 61, after being married almost 31 years) will be a challenge. My wife was recently moved to a skilled nursing facility two hours away, and our youngest child (who still lives at home) will move closer to his job once Covid restrictions are lifted (and he is no longer telecommuting). It's not an adjustment I'm looking forward to.