Danmar
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Sorry to hear that.
This is why I can't allow myself to get into a relationship. The risk is too high.
Better to have loved and lost...... Children? Even though I went through one of the most expensive, bitter, public, long(15 years) divorces you could imagine, I got a wonderful daughter out of the deal. Also, wouldn't have met my current wonderful wife if I hadn't been married the first time.
You gotta go for. But be careful.