... they'll be the ones who do in fact end-up spending less as the age ...The ones that are truly 'free spending' won't be able to retire
Laurence said:I was thinking about that, too! I was, in fact, thinking beyond family and imagining setting up a local scholarship fund (worthy graduates of the local high school, something like that). See, the only barrier to college for my family members is desire, really. But if a kid has all the academic qualification to go to a top 20 school, but couldn't get enough grants to cover the dorm room, I'd love to help be that critical piece that lets them reach their dream. Like you, I haven't fleshed out this plan, my portfolio is too small for me to get ahead of myself!
Jay_Gatsby said:I guess I don't understand what's wrong with dying and leaving an estate worth far more than when you retired.
Ron'Da said:An answer to that is the situation that I/DW have, in which we have no "generations of your family" to consider.
We plan to leave the "remainder" to charity, but don't want to leave a lot (sorry, I don't trust others with "our money", and where it will go...)
I know that we are the minority in this situation, but please consider it in your "equation"...
- Ron
I'd rather benefit my kids the Buffett & Gates way.Jay_Gatsby said:I guess I don't understand what's wrong with dying and leaving an estate worth far more than when you retired. If you allocate your money properly so as to avoid taxes and spendthrifts, your money can continue to benefit generations of your family. This is how one provides opportunities to one's family that aren't possible to achieve during one lifetime. Sure, you learn a great deal about money by working your way through high school and college, but wouldn't it be better in some ways for your kids to never worry about paying for an education?
True...Jay_Gatsby said:You have no nieces, nephews, cousins, etc... to whom you could leave some of your money?
Ron'Da said:True...
We have one son (disabled) who cannot have more than $2K in resources (else he would lose his SSD/Medicare.
Not everybody has "blood relatives"....
- Ron
Martha said:Have you looked at a special needs trust for him?
Jay_Gatsby said:I guess I don't understand what's wrong with dying and leaving an estate worth far more than when you retired. If you allocate your money properly so as to avoid taxes and spendthrifts, your money can continue to benefit generations of your family. This is how one provides opportunities to one's family that aren't possible to achieve during one lifetime. Sure, you learn a great deal about money by working your way through high school and college, but wouldn't it be better in some ways for your kids to never worry about paying for an education?
HaHa said:Couldn't agree more. In America we are so Puritanical about work. Remember all the great scientific discoveries of the 17th and 18 centuries? Many of them were made by "gentlemen" who had no need to keep food on the table, so they could follow wherever their excellent imaginations took them. Same story with the British and French adventurer/explorers who mapped Africa.
Nords said:I'd rather benefit my kids the Buffett & Gates way.
If my kid never had to worry about paying for an education then it wouldn't be worth anything to her. She wouldn't learn anything, either.
Military academies are free too, but she'll pay dearly for that education!
HaHa said:Couldn't agree more. In America we are so Puritanical about work. Remember all the great scientific discoveries of the 17th and 18 centuries? Many of them were made by "gentlemen" who had no need to keep food on the table, so they could follow wherever their excellent imaginations took them. Same story with the British and French adventurer/explorers who mapped Africa.
Work may help a dull person avoid alcoholism or total dissipation, but it also keeps many interesting and inventive people busy with stuff that mostly doesn’t interest them, and which won’t have much long term effect on the world.
Ha
Jay_Gatsby said:Although we're not in the 17th and 18th centuries anymore...
Yeah, I see that word a lot around my name...Jay_Gatsby said:Too simplistic of an answer, although it might apply in your particular case.
The word "obviously" always makes my antennae twitch, almost as much as the phrase "government studies prove". I think 529s reflect their "tax-free!" marketing more than they reflect their financial worth.Jay_Gatsby said:Were this the case for the majority of people, we might as well throw out all of the 529 Plans that litter the educational saving landscape. Obviously since it isn't...
Gosh, that sounds harsh. I thought we'd just save money to pay for the state tuition to a bachelor's. If the kid wants a "better" school, or to pursue a graduate degree, then she's welcome to figure out a way to fund her higher aspirations. That'll certainly help her determine how meaningful they are to her. And if the "easy" way out (student loans) becomes a crippling burden down the road, well, I suppose we could step in with the gifting. But I'd rather not be the deus ex machina reaching out to touch my kid's life.Jay_Gatsby said:... the best way to ensure that an education actually means something to a child who doesn't have to pay for school is to condition tuition payment on the pursuit of particular courses of study. Alternatively, you could have a trustee (or series of trustees) possessing the requisite wisdom to guide your future generations in selecting majors and careers. There are all sorts of mechanisms you can design to ensure your money is not taken for granted or abused.