ERD50
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People who are the hardcore version of this won't change, facts bounce off them, so have some fun with it. It takes a little planning, but something like:...
Is it possible to help someone who's so deeply entrenched in one very biased, partisan viewpoint as to seem almost like a cult member?
I'm OK with rooting for your home team (even though most of the players are not from your home town.) I'm even OK with rooting for your favorite political party, even though not all of their platform conforms with your core beliefs and preferences.
What I can't comprehend is living in a bubble where everything the other party wants will bring doomsday, and everything your own party wants is perfect.
Political discussion is out of the question. No facts or logic will convince this person that any member of "their" party has ever done or said anything wrong, or that the opposing party is anything but evil or has ever done anything right.
How do you talk sense to someone who is that caught up in a cult like this?
Hey, what do you think about (name someone from his hated party) saying "outrageous statement #1"? That will set him off, and he will go on and on about how stupid that person is.
Repeat another version of that with another name from his hated party, but keep it slightly vague, like "have you heard", or "imagine the reaction to Senator John Other-Party Doe saying: xyz".
After he has torn these people up every which way, tell him one by one, that the first statement was actually by someone from his beloved party - give the exact name, date and event. Repeat for each statement.
I could give examples, but this thread would be down in an instant
+1. I hear the headlines like everyone else, but I then seek out as many different POV's as I can depending on the level of importance/my interest. Fortunately anything you want is just a click away these days. Being spoon fed news from any one or two sources is probably not very reliable, even the few left who you might think are neutral.
While seeking out different POVs' can be helpful, I'm finding it less so these days. All it does it verify expectations, they each have a predictable bias - leaving out context, or cherry picking. You don't get enough from each side to put it together.
I've pretty much gone to ignoring the news and I go directly to the source. For example, I'll watch CSPAN cover an event from start to finish - these are done with no editing, no editorializing (or catch a youtube version of the entire video - youtube has a better user interface). Then look at the headlines from the large news sources. More often than not, the event is completly miss-characterized. I've actually gone back to re-watch an event after I've seen a headline on google news or an email newsfeed, because i'm wondering -what did I miss? I don;t recall that. And OK, out of a 30 minute event, there's 30 seconds that can be exaggerated to be negative (and it isn't negative in context), and the headline is that twisted 30 seconds, rather than the 29:30 positive they could and should have talked about. My distrust is so low, it isn't even worth reading for a POV.
I wish I could give examples, but they'll be seen as partisan rather than just a demonstration of the problem. But I really suggest to just skip the news sources, and go directly to a video/text of the event itself w/o any "journalism" getting in the way. Life seems very different to me from what is reported on either side.
-ERD50