LRDave
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Well yea, but I gave up that fight years ago. I just plan on it. Much less stressful.
I have found in 39+ years of marriage, no matter how low the bar is set, it can be tripped over.
Well yea, but I gave up that fight years ago. I just plan on it. Much less stressful.
Well that may be a bit overstated. Actually we don't argue much anymore... One or two hot topics so we try to stay away from those as much as possible... Politics is one of our favorite topics that we discuss almost daily.. Good thing we agree on most of that!You have been fighting at the drop of a hat for 40 years?
Sex is the big trigger in our relationship. It always seems like one of us is in the mood when the other is not, and we each tend to get cranky when it has been a while. We have both seen declines in our libido as we have aged, so that hasn't helped the situation.
A fight breaks out whenever I don’t do something that she wants me to do, or submit to her controlling nature, no matter how ridiculous. We’re in one now.
It sounds like you need to submit.A fight breaks out whenever I don’t do something that she wants me to do, or submit to her controlling nature, no matter how ridiculous. We’re in one now.
It sounds like you need to submit.
Socializing. He's the life of the party, and I'd rather not even be at the party. I did overhear him telling our adult children at Christmas that he doesn't enjoy socializing as much as he used to because his hearing is deteriorating, and he's usually ready to go to bed at 9:30.
Luckily we agree 100% on politics, or we'd be divorced by now.
Funny, I can't remember the last time we argued about anything. We so rarely have differences of opinion on anything significant.
Funny, I can't remember the last time we argued about anything. We so rarely have differences of opinion on anything significant.
Any two people living together are bound to have disagreements. What do you tend to fight about most? Sex, Money, Chores, Kids, In-laws, Romance, life goals, etc.?
We don't, either, after 2 years of marriage. Love, respect, simple courtesy, & logical separations of chores ==> nothing to fight about.
If I buy a carton of chocolate mint ice cream I'm a weight loss saboteur. But if she brings it upstairs from the freezer and opens it, that's her fault that I put on two pounds.