TromboneAl
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I occasionally raise a little cain about stuff that the other person is capable of fixing, if he or she tries. This usually falls in the "chores" realm. But I always try diplomacy before war
I have no problem admitting when something is my fault. Heck, I apologize even when things aren't my fault. My wife is the opposite, she almost never apologizes for anything and will defend her ground even if she is wrong. If I have a problem with something she did, I better have good evidence and a well planned delivery. So, I try to avoid arguments because she's really good at it and I almost never win.
Hahahaha. Somehow that sounds familiar too. Something about the way the female mind works. We're masters at detail.
Sounds familiar1That's kinda where my wife and I are. We dont 'fight'. We don't even bicker often. Lately its this. I like my Classic Rock LOUD and I prefer not to wear headphones.. The loud music annoys her and I get the "Sweetie will you turn that down?" (that means turn it off). On the other hand she likes the TV louder than I do (probably some hearing loss) which sends me over the edge cause she just told me to turn my music down or off LOL.
She does NOT like it when I have a few too many adult beverages. It doesn't happen often but when it does, I'm fine... but she will give me the silent treatment. I respect that and 97% of the time, I order water for the rest of the night rather than that next adult beverage. The 3% of the time she has nothing to say to me.
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Driving. She likes to sit in the lanes where you can almost without a doubt hypothesize that the car will be slowing to turn...just as DW enters the lane behind them.
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But I'll also admit, I like to argue (about most anything). Pick a topic and a side, I'll take the other side and let's go! It's a great exercise in listening, thinking and articulating a response while also keeping your emotions in check.
We've been happily married for 42 years........46 years total!
She demands sex twice a day and, frankly, some days I'm just not up to it.
Awe come on now. You don't like to argue. You just like to win.
No, but some of the catch up sessions have me reaching for my nitro.Do you have fill in for those times?
it's all about who's right. I'm 100% right, until he proves me wrong [-]and visa versa[/-] but he never does.
+1Arguing with DW is like reading a software licensing agreement. At the end it's just easier for me to click "I agree".
I am very aware of the idea of "once spoken, it can never be unspoken", and actively avoid situations where something could be spoken in anger.
It's all about who's right. I'm 100% right, until he proves me wrong and visa versa.
Well yea, but I gave up that fight years ago. I just plan on it. Much less stressful.
Too cute and that's why he married her. She will guide him through life, and he will follow with roses and chocolate. Isn't that the way it's supposed to be.A young lady I had known since she was a baby told me she was engaged. I asked her who the lucky guy was, and it was a man whose last name was spelled "Wright"...so I said, "Oh, you are marrying 'Mr. Wright'" and she replied, "Yes, and he is marrying Mrs. Always Wright"...
I thought that was clever.