My husband was 47 when I met him, never married no kids. I was 37, never married no kids. I did not check his financials - I was more interested in the fact that he made me laugh and was easy to talk to. He is/wasn't perfect looking, neither was/am I. But we get along great.
As we dated more I found out he owned his home and car outright, had no debt. Found out he was family oriented. Found out he was open to kids. We were engaged 6 months after we our first date, and married 10 months after we first met. It's been almost 22 years.
Yes - I was working towards a goal of retiring at 55. His attitude was to work hard, then take a few months off to travel - he called it mini-pre-retirement practices. But he was frugal to allow that to happen. (And mini-practice retirements kind of went away when the kids came along.) Now we're retired, kids are out of the house (but still on the payroll during college).
I met my husband through the old-style fix-up. I'd worked with his brother, who introduced us. Until I met him I'd dated using apps, fix-ups, meet ups, etc. I'd also decided that I was going to work to be happy, whether I met someone or not. That was probably the best thing I did for myself... took the pressure of dating off.
The biggest thing to remember is that looks can (will) change. You need to *like* the person you get serious with.