Dtail
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The OP is 67 so looking for a partner who would likely be at least a 50 yo woman, not a tinder night.
The right person will not care about his abs. She will not be looking to "hook up" and she will not care about his body fat percentage.
She will care only that he is kind, warm, stable, healthy and takes reasonably good care of himself. She will take note of how he treats her, his family, and strangers, and whether they are good companions for one another at home and on travels.
Nicely stated.