BubbaChris
Recycles dryer sheets
How does one go about saying goodbye to a pet?
I'm pretty sure in that position now.
One of my cats, the sweetest animal I've ever met is not in good shape.
Among other things, looks like he has a bad heart. He's due for an test on Tuesday to see how extensive his heart is.
My feeling is he may have a couple of months, if that.
I have an empty feeling like when knowing the end is coming for people who are not well. Crisis, tests, hope, false hope.
So going back to the title, how does one emotionally say goodbye?
The best advice I've heard is from a long-time dog breeder. Her process aims to ensure she can say goodbye a day too-soon than a day too-late.
We've had two too-lates with our dogs and it is such an extra burden to be in acute crisis mode and then having to throw in the towel. We've had two more where we were able to be in a much more calm place when the end came. It was easier on all of us.
One thing to consider if you're able to plan ahead, it may be possible to arrange things so that last act of love can take place in your home. Again, that's more comfortable and peaceful than needing to visit a vet's office.
Best of luck with your decision,
Chris