timo2
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Aspects of our personalities that were not fully apparent to each other while we spent all of our time at work. Now we are around each other all the time.
We have never had a fight...but then again we've only been together for 2 years.
But seriously, we both think we hit the jackpot with each other. We agree on all the major issues and the minor ones are not important enough to worry about or argue about.
It's been a long time since we've had a real argument about anything. Things that would have bothered me 20 years ago don't seem to matter much anymore. I think we both let minor issues slide. I'm sure we say/do things that annoy the other person, but we're pretty good at ignoring stuff. Happily married 40+ years.
It's all about who's right. I'm 100% right, until he proves me wrong and visa versa.
Hahahaha. Somehow that sounds familiar too. Something about the way the female mind works. We're masters at detail.Heck, I apologize even when things aren't my fault. My wife is the opposite, she almost never apologizes for anything and will defend her ground even if she is wrong. If I have a problem with something she did, I better have good evidence and a well planned delivery. So, I try to avoid arguments because she's really good at it and I almost never win.
Wow, I'm impressed with those of you who say you don't fight. We don't do it much these days, but early in our marriage we had a lot of real ugly doozies. If it wasn't for make-up sex, I don't know we would have survived.
We are also in the "never really fight" category. But that's probably because neither of our personalities are good for that.
But we don't push each others buttons, and neither of us want or need to.
Now, we bicker: I pick way-too-expensive hotels, he would prefer to always stay home, I cater to our cats too much, he has no idea how to clean a toilet, I sneeze very loudly, he drives too aggressively, but we balance these things out.